Conversational
The power of making your lyrics more intimate
As songwriters, we often want to craft songs that strike a profound chord with listeners. Writing value-driven songs (click here) is like that. But there are ways to take this even further.
I remember attending a songwriter seminar where a panel of experts critiqued a series of songs. Among them was a music publisher seeking potential tracks to pitch to various artists. Interestingly, the panel offered similar feedback to more than half of the songs: "Make it more conversational."
Make it more conversational
But what exactly does it mean to have conversational lyrics, and how to master this technique? So, read on.
What is Conversational?
Conversational lyrics are words and phrases that mirror the cadence and feel of everyday speech. They resonate with listeners on a deeper, more relatable level because they sound like natural conversations.
But writing conversational lyrics can be easier said than done. It requires a balance of authenticity, simplicity, and emotion—a delicate blend that can elevate a song from good to unforgettable.
A Campfire Story
Imagine sitting around a crackling campfire with your closest friends, sharing stories and bonding over experiences. There is a genuine connection as the words flow effortlessly, peppered with emotion and authenticity. Now, let us transpose that same ambience to songwriting. Picture lyrics that mimic a heartfelt conversation – the laughter, the vulnerability, the connection – that is what conversational lyrics are all about. They invite listeners into the song’s world as if they are part of an intimate discussion, thus deepening the emotional resonance of the music.
Conversational lyrics mirror natural, colloquial speech patterns. They encapsulate phrases, words, and expressions that we use daily in our conversations. They are the antithesis of flowery, overly complex language in songs. Conversational lyrics have the innate ability to create an inclusive space, weaving a story that the listener can easily relate to. By using everyday language, songwriters can appeal to the emotions of their audience more profoundly.
5 Ways to Write Lyrics More Conversational
Here are five ways to help write conversational lyrics in your songs:
Use Authentic Language
Authenticity is key in conversational lyrics. Opt for words and phrases that genuinely reflect your own or an imagined character's thoughts and emotions. For instance, instead of “I am thoroughly impressed by your actions,” you might say, “I’m blown away by what you’ve done.”
Embrace Contractions and Slang
Incorporating colloquialisms can give your lyrics a contemporary edge. For example, use contractions like “can’t” instead of “cannot,” or sprinkle in regional slang that fits your target audience. Just remember to keep it natural and not forced.
Emphasize storytelling
A great conversation is akin to an engaging story. So, build your song like a conversation between two friends or lovers. For example, “I saw her standing there” (The Beatles) provides a clear visual, and we can imagine a friend relaying a story.
Use Questions
Incorporate questions to engage the listener directly. “Do You Remember The Time?” (Michael Jackson) is a perfect example, instantly connecting to the audience by inviting them into a nostalgic conversation.
Express Emotions Directly
Just like conversations, your lyrics should express feelings honestly. Take Adele’s “Someone Like You”: “Never mind, I'll find someone like you / I wish nothing but the best for you, too.” She is addressing her listeners directly and expressing raw, relatable emotions.
As you embark on your journey to craft conversational lyrics, remember the importance of
Authenticity
Simplicity
Relatability
Emotions
And connection
See more about writing lyrics from a personal lens by writing with your voice here and emotional proxies here.
Writing conversational lyrics is an art form that can propel your songwriting to new heights. By developing this skill, you can craft songs that build deeper connections and evoke powerful emotions. So go ahead, have a conversation with your audience through your lyrics, and watch your music resonate in the hearts of your listeners.
Questions
Here are a few questions when writing your next song:
How can I use colloquial language in my lyrics to make it more relatable and accessible?
What story do I want to tell in my song, and how can I convey it through natural conversation?
How can I engage my listeners directly, using questions or expressing emotions in a raw, genuine way?
Hope this helps!
Simon